Deposits

All incalls and dates with new friends require a $200 flat deposit, to be paid for in crypto or a gift card of my choosing. Overnights and FMTYs require a 30% deposit. Please note that for crypto, I gently ask for time for the transaction to go through before nailing down a time.

 

Deposits for FMTYs are nonrefundable within 5 days of our date. Deposits for overnights are nonrefundable within 48 hours at my discretion.

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Timing Notes

For dates of 4 hours of more, please plan for a meal together :)  Anything over 5 hours requires a bit of time outdoors — coffee, a date to the opera, feeding geese in a park…you get the picture. 

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Overnights and Fly-Me-To-Yous

My overnight rate reflects that this is my favorite amount of time to spend with friends. I love having unrestrained time for kisses, quality time, and telling you the worst possible dad jokes. Generally, I see this as going from 6pm to noon the next day. This is plenty of time for dinner, an night of exploring each other, and a relaxed morning in bed with coffee and brunch.​

 

I absolutely love making an adventure out of meeting people, and I'd love to fly to you and make memories together! My FMTY minimum is an overnight, although I am happy to make exceptions on a case-by-case basis with clients I've spent time with before. For FMTY dates, I request that you provide reimbursement for flight and transportation costs in advance, along with the deposit.​

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Cancellation and Late Policy

I get it—Trains are unreliable and driving in the Bay Area is a headache. I’m more than happy to absorb up to 15 minutes of a delay if need be. Obviously on the rare occasion that I'm the one late, I will honor our full date together.

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If you need to cancel please try to do so at least two days before our date. If you can’t give enough notice, I do ask for partial reimbursement because I need to clear my schedule for you.

 

Less than 48 hours' notice: 25% of my fee

Less than 24 hours' notice: 50% of my fee

Less than 3 hours'  notice: 100% of my fee

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I’m generally a very accommodating and understanding person, but I don’t enjoy being ghosted by people I’ve made time for. Failure to pay my cancellation fee will prevent you from seeing me in the future, and I will notify other providers of what happened.

 

Rarely have I needed to cancel, but if I do you’ll be refunded within the hour and I will offer an additional half-hour toward another date together.